This is someone who is going to give you a space to freely express yourself however you see fit. This is a person who is never going to hold whatever you have to say against you. This is someone who isn’t going to judge or criticize you in ways that will make you feel terrible or small. You no longer have to feel unsafe in the expression of your inner self because this person is going to love you – the real you; and not just the filtered version of you. With this person, you are really going to understand what it means to be free and liberated from your own personal insecurities.
You are going to know what it means to have someone who sees you as perfect – even when you know that you are just overflowing with imperfections. With this person, you will have the confidence to feel like you can do absolutely no wrong. You won’t have to tread carefully. You can be as reckless as you want because you know that someone is going to be there to catch you when you fall. With this person, you won’t have to every worry about doing or saying anything that will drive them away from you – because they will always make it a point to get as close to you as possible. They will love you not just with an emotional intensity – but a physical one as well.
Perhaps you have been growing more and more discouraged because of a very unfortunate pattern of dating terrible partners. Perhaps you are growing more and more tired of being with someone who just can’t love you the way that you think you deserve to be loved – the way that you have always dreamed of being loved. And that’s fine. That’s normal.
You can be sad about that. But what you shouldn’t do is allow that to taint your faith and hope in the idea that true love is going to find you eventually – and when it does, it will be the most beautiful thing you will ever have the opportunity of experiencing.
Not only will you feel like you will be at your most beautiful because you are loved; but you will start to see the world through beautiful rose-colored lenses. And you will end up forgetting about all of the bleakness of the past.