She is very much willing to compromise her own well-being for the sake of you. She is very much willing to put her life on hold just so she can help you get along with yours. She is the woman who is willing to leave her life in disarray just to help you get your back on track.
She does this even though she knows that she’s risking a whole lot for you. She knows that there is a very likely chance that once you become okay again; once you do get your life together, you are just going to leave her in the dust. She knows that once you’ve used her up all that you can, you might end up abandoning her and leaving her out to dry. She knows that everything that she is doing for you now might not end up bearing any fruit. But she’s fine with that. However, she isn’t going to be fine with it for too long. She is only human after all. She still has her limits. She still has to look after herself at some point.
Again, you shouldn’t take her tolerance to mean that she’s okay with the way that you treat her. She isn’t okay with it at all. She doesn’t enjoy it one bit. But she knows that she has to tolerate you for a while to wait for you to come into your own. She knows that she has to let you be to some extent. But she can’t keep this up forever. She can’t keep on waiting for you if you’re not going to be able to show her signs of improvement. She can’t keep waiting around for you if you don’t give her anything worth waiting for.
At the end of the day, a great girl is always going to be willing to wait for you to be ready. But a great girl also knows her worth, and if you make her wait too long, you are going to lose her because she will do what is right for her. And at that point, you have no one else to blame but herself. You won’t be able to blame her. So don’t let it get to that point. Don’t make her wait for you even though you know that she would.