Sometimes, a lot of people are prone to sabotaging their own relationships without even knowing it.
Women are capable of great things. There is no point in trying to downplay the potential of a woman to change the world. Society has changed and women have proven the capacities of their power time and time again. Unfortunately, that isn’t always going to be a good thing.
Gone are the days when men had the overwhelming stronghold on all social institutions particularly marriages. In the old days, men used to always make decisions on behalf of the family. Men used to always be the ones who were steering the ship and calling all the shots. So the success or failure of a marriage always depended on the man. But nowadays, men and women are on more of an equal footing. So women now have the potential to also bring success to the family; but they also have the potential to sabotage their own marriages.
Sometimes, a lot of people are prone to sabotaging their own relationships without even knowing it. Their emotions are just way too strong and they end up blinding themselves to the truth of the situation. If you want to make sure that your marriage works out, you always have to maintain a healthy objective perspective on things. You always have to make sure that you aren’t unknowingly destroying your relationships with your bad habits.
So if you find yourself guilty of a lot of the items listed on here, you have to make sure you change your ways if you want to make your marriage work:
1. They withhold their intimacy and affection.
Women should never be withholding when it comes to love or kindness. When you fall in love with a man, you shouldn’t be withholding of that love at all. Let your man know that he is always loved even when he doesn’t need to hear it from you.
2. They set their expectations too high.
Learn to always manage your expectations well in the relationship. For one, you are only setting yourself up for disappointment by setting your expectations unreasonably high. And second, you are going to make your man feel totally worthless if he always fails to live up to your expectations.
3. They aren’t careful with their choice of words.
Words matter. Never allow yourself to think otherwise. Be very careful with the words you use with your man. If you keep on saying mean and hurtful things to him, then he will take those words to be a manifestation of how you really feel about him.