Guys, do you agree?
Trying to navigate our what through this world and the relationships that we forge with other people is no simple feat. Conflict is lurking everywhere and we always want to make sure that we conduct ourselves with tact and poise when interacting with the people we encounter on a daily basis. There are some relationships that we’re just not meant to be a part of; and there are some relationships that we have to fight to keep alive. And that’s just the nature of life really.
You have to make sure that you don’t let your good relationships go to waste especially romantic relationships with great women who are good to you. Now, just because the both of you get along and things are going great doesn’t mean that you’re not doing anything wrong that could potentially jeopardize your romance. There are many factors that go into making a relationship work. And there are plenty of men all around the world who are unknowingly destroying their relationships without necessarily intending to.
It’s important for you to always maintain a sense of introspection in your relationships. You never want to approach your most intimate relationships in a nonchalant manner. You always want to make sure that you are nurturing them to the best of your abilities and you’re not doing anything detrimental.
And if you are completely clueless, then this article is for you. If you find that some, a lot, or all of these things in this article apply to you, then you need to make the necessary corrections. You don’t want to end up as the guy who lost a perfectly great girl just because you didn’t know you weren’t doing right by her. Here are the 10 most common mistakes that guys make in relationships.
1. You don’t practice mindfulness and presence whenever you’re with her.
Whenever you spend time with your girl, make sure that you actually spend time with her and her alone. Don’t let distractions get in the way of the time that you have to bond with one another. Practice full presence every moment that you have together and make her feel like you’re always focused on her. Let her have your full attention.
2. You don’t make an effort to try to understand her.
Men and women are inherently different. But that doesn’t mean that you should be content with not understanding one another. Try to always make an effort to see where she’s coming from. Try to see things from her perspective.